If you’re scared enough to hint at a certain moderate fetish to your partner, tell them you like having sex with other people – this is a whole new level of fear. But holding back your feelings isn’t an option; you’re letting your secret desires run wild. So how do you suggest sharing your intimacy with others without upsetting your partner? There is no guaranteed course of action. It all depends on how you express it, the dynamics of your relationship, and how open-minded your partner is. But before you have the conversation, you need to evaluate whether your type of relationship is compatible with the nude girl’s lifestyle and why you want to do it.
What is the reason?
Before you ask your partner if they want to live the nude girl’s lifestyle, you need to ask yourself why you want to live that lifestyle in the first place. Is it because you are unhappy with the sex in your relationship right now? If that is your honest answer, you might want to get some couples counseling rather than inviting more people into your bed. A good “reason” is that you’re satisfied with your sex life, but want variety and novelty to spice up an already good relationship.
Rules for Talking About Nude Girls
There’s no rule of thumb for how to start a conversation, so here are some general tips to help you craft your speech:
Never use self-injection
Begin with a statement like “I’d like to try girls nude.” It should be about both of you, including your partner. Frame the conversation as exploring nude girls together as a couple, and use encouraging words to mention your own sex life. Try something like, “Our sex life is great, but I read an article about nude girls and thought it would be interesting to explore it together as a couple.” Make sure your partner understands that you see nude girls as an addition to your already fulfilling sex life, not a replacement.
Listen to your partner more than you talk to him/her
Let him express his fears and concerns and challenge the idea of nude girls. What you should never do is try to convince or force your partner in any way. Take them and their feelings seriously and make them feel heard.
Take your time.
This is not an easy suggestion to understand, so your partner will probably need to think about it for days before he has an answer. He will probably have a lot of questions, too, so you need to be ready to answer them all and clear any doubts. Sharing him some podcasts or other resources about nude girls will be a great trump card. 4. Give your partner a chance to warm up. It might also help you decide if nude girls are something you want to indulge in. For example, suggest a sexual fantasy involving another person and see how your partner reacts. A threesome is a good place to start. Or suggest attending a sex club or nude party just as a spectator. This is the best way to learn about nude girls.
Be friendly and not pushy
You should always support your partner regardless of his reaction. Be aware that the idea of showing nude girls may not be well received if you do not have a proper understanding of what it is about. That’s why it’s important to explain to your partner what seeing a woman nude means to you — and whatever you decide, always put your partner’s needs and desires first.
