You may think you know everything there is to know in bed, but most of us could still use a little education. Learning about adult sex can be challenging, but there are some things you can do to learn more about how to please your partner and yourself in bed.
See how to navigate adult sex with some tips below. You can also take our survey and let us know if you think you already know your way around adult sex or if you feel like you still have a lot to learn.
Find What You Want
Before you start thinking about exactly what you can do to please your partner as an adult, you must understand how to please yourself. This means experimenting to discover what turns you on and what doesn’t.
If you’re watching porn, you’re already starting. Watching porn already tells you what turns you on and what doesn’t. You might even discover something you didn’t expect.
You might know what you don’t like from your previous adult sex sessions. Having clear boundaries to share with your partner is good because you know what you don’t like and can focus on what you want instead.
Be open to new things
The good thing about watching adult sex is that there is so much variety. Whether you love watching hot lesbians trap each other or bondage, you’re sure to find something that suits you. However, the variety of adult sex also means that you may encounter something unexpected. The most important thing is to keep an open mind when determining what you like.
Don’t put anything in the “no” column on your do’s and don’ts list until you’ve tried it a little first. Maybe you’ll surprise yourself with a kinky act you never thought you’d enjoy. What if you don’t like it? Then you’ll have nothing to lose and know it’s not for you. You’ll find that adult sex can be a lot more fun if you keep an open mind.
