We humans like to name things. For example, we can label a group of people as casual sex, threesomes, heterosexual, etc. But naming things isn’t always helpful, especially regarding feelings and emotions. For example, say a man can have sex with another man. It would be wrong to call such a person a casual sex person. In this article, we’ll dig deeper into what it means to be a bottom, why heterosexual men enjoy being a bottom, and why their love of being a bottom doesn’t translate to casual sex.
What does bottom mean?
Being a bottom is a term that describes a form of gay sex that involves anal penetration. Being an ass means being the receiving partner in anal sex. This means that a man penetrates another man’s anus with his penis. In some cases, toys or other devices can be used. But at the end of the day, being at the bottom means accepting being anally penetrated. Be aware that casual sex, threesomes, and heterosexual men can bottom.
Why do heterosexuals enjoy bottoming?
The anal area is an entire section of sensitive nerve cells so anal sex can be very pleasurable. During anal sex, the penis stimulates the prostate, which is often connected to the genitals. Plus, prostate orgasms can be pretty intense. The emotional satisfaction of pleasing another person having sex with another man can be emotionally rewarding. Many bottom men claim that bottom sex with another man involves elements of control, desire, lust, choice, and choice. And the feeling of being both strong and vulnerable at the same time, allowing another man to penetrate you until you orgasm, is emotionally fulfilling. You don’t have to orgasm to feel sexually satisfied. One of the best things about being a bottom is that most bottom men claim to be sexually satisfied. The feeling of watching another man pulsate inside you, hands-free, is sexually satisfying, even if you don’t orgasm. Why is not casual sex? Casual sex is a powerful word and is sometimes used out of context because sex with other men is not the only criterion to consider. Therefore, being a bottom should not be reduced to casual sexing; in most cases, casual, threesome, straight, and other categories are more than just sex. A big part of casual sex has to do with emotions. That’s why a man who has casual sex wants to do more than have sex with other men. For him, romance revolves around the man. On the other hand, a man who doesn’t have casual sex can have sex with a man but still go home to his girlfriend, who he loves and is emotionally and sexually attracted to.
